This is a guest post by Saskia Busch of Yap Yap Meow.
Managing
Unwanted Animal Behavior
Have you ever wondered why Lucy*
is chasing her tail for hours at a time? Or why Mango* is sharpening his claws
on your favorite rug and not the ugly practical one that you bought for him?
Most of us think of them as spoilt or naughty.
There are so many factors that
influence our animals and their behavior that most of the time there are very
good reasons for what they are doing. For instance, the scratching that cats do
is imperative to exercise the tendons that join their claws to their paw
digits.
Most of today’s domestic cats
don’t get enough of the right exercise and must make up for it in other ways.
This is what Mango* was doing. After a colleague of mine communicated with him
she discovered that the ugly rug wasn’t cutting it (excuse the pun ;-). It
wasn’t working for what he needed for his claws. His human was relieved to know
the reason and just bought herself her own lovely rug. Human and Mango* –
happy!
The two scenarios below are from
recent communications I have done to illustrate my point. In both cases the
humans either were confounded by the behavior or thought the animal was being
disobedient.
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Bernie* is a sweet and loving
pooch at home. When her human Dad, Mike*, takes her out for a walk on the leash
she is well behaved. However as soon as she goes out with her human Mom,
Alida*, she becomes aggressive and barks incessantly. After I communicated with
her we discovered that Alida* does not take on the role of a leader and that
makes Bernie* feel like she has to fulfill that role when they are together in
vulnerable situations. She displays aggressive behavior and barks at everyone
and everything to let them know that there is a protector in the relationship.
Alida* is now working on being
more assertive and, when necessary, disciplining Bernie* to show her that she
is the leader in the relationship.
Trenton* is house trained and
uses his litter box most of the time. Yes, you heard right. I said most of the
time. Occasionally things go awry and Trenton* uses another spot in the house
as his toilet.
Every four to six weeks there is a puddle on the carpet.
His humans, Nadine* and Jeff*,
tried everything. From moving the litter box to different locations in the
house, to adding another litter box so that he has one upstairs. They even
tried scolding him.
During our communication Trenton*
sent me an image of another cat at the window on a moonlit night. We decided
that the reason for the erratic elimination could be from fear of seeing a
strange cat at the window. Nadine* confirmed that there were cats in the
neighborhood that displayed territorial behavior.
I have also heard of incidences
in which one cat in the household withholds litter ‘rights’ from another as a
form of domination. In other words cat A will become aggressive towards cat B
when approaching the litter box and not allow her to use it.
This type of behavior can result in a number of unpleasant issues.
They could be unwanted
elimination around the house or physical symptoms like urinary tract infection
from holding the urine in too long, to name just two.
Is your cat or dog displaying
behavior that you can’t explain or help them stop? First assess the environment
and the family dynamic before scolding or using corrective commands.
There may be a deeper issue at play.
Once you have done your
assessment and are still at a loose end, call someone in to help. There are
many different avenues of therapy and healing that can be employed to solve
behavior issues in gentle and non-invasive ways.
If your animal friend is
displaying strange or unwanted behavior, leave a comment below and let us know.
*Names have been changed to
protect the identities of the people and animals featured in the case studies.
Saskia Busch from Yap Yap Meow is
an animal communicator dedicated to providing practical, hands on advice to
solve issues easily. She has connected and communicated with animals on an
energetic level for most of her life. This communication enables her to obtain
information about their physical and emotional well-being interpreting their take on a situation.
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Chance tries to get funky with pillow when he has pinned up energy...about once a week when I take a break from running.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your advice and coaching. Great points you make.